View Full Version : What feels better to love or be loved ?
The Dead Poet
08-01-2018, 11:35 AM
Getting your dick sucked while watching ESPN.
veritas
08-01-2018, 11:47 AM
If you would allow me my perfect answer I would say a dynamo of both. Each furlong the other.
If you will not accept this answer let me know
Totally agree dude .
Loving is very freeing and powerful
But being loved is so uplifting and gives me a feeling of infinite potential
We talking romantic love?
Cuz I love helping people more than anything, you could consider that a type of love right?
veritas
08-01-2018, 12:15 PM
I know that I am a lame married guy, but I noticed that once I started focusing on how good I was making her feel, instead of how good it felt to me, that it acted as like a natural performance enhancer. I do not have any hard science behind this, just anecdotal.
Ghost1
08-01-2018, 12:42 PM
I agree ... Both is key
I also like the Greek view of defining the different types of love
https://lonerwolf.com/different-types-of-love/
I take cialis for fun
For fun? I take it to punish women.
It’s better for me to love. I already love myself enough.
veritas
08-01-2018, 12:50 PM
I take cialis for fun
does it work?
veritas
08-01-2018, 12:50 PM
I agree ... Both is key
I also like the Greek view of defining the different types of love
https://lonerwolf.com/different-types-of-love/
This is dope. AGAPE
Ghost1
08-01-2018, 12:51 PM
This is dope. AGAPE
The ultimate
Vammy
08-01-2018, 12:52 PM
To take a long hit off a crackpipe
does it work?
Fuck yea
I have much to say
Want some?
I owe u for the book
Ghost1
08-01-2018, 12:55 PM
To take a long hit off a crackpipe
I have zero admin capabilities and from one post I can tell this u Mr faggot.... Unreal....u have managed to transcend fsggotism
I have zero admin capabilities and from one post I can tell this u Mr faggot.... Unreal....u have managed to transcend fsggotism
Gotcha
bleak
08-01-2018, 01:02 PM
Tbf Ghost1 he joined the discord and veritas vouched. Idk how much weight that holds
Ghost1
08-01-2018, 01:05 PM
Tbf Ghost1 he joined the discord and veritas vouched. Idk how much weight that holds
Mr faggot?
Destroyer
08-01-2018, 01:07 PM
Depends
Are we talking about the butt?
bleak
08-01-2018, 01:09 PM
Mr faggot?
Vammy
Ghost1
08-01-2018, 01:10 PM
So Mr fsggot
Depends
Are we talking about the butt?
Elaborate
Destroyer
08-01-2018, 01:13 PM
Well I think it’s got to feel better to love in the butt than to get loved in the butt
Ghost1
08-01-2018, 01:17 PM
Gone
bleak
08-01-2018, 01:22 PM
Fair enough lol
ya'll some bitches
but i mean, in the interest of balance you'd want mutuality.
doesn't often work out like that, but bit of a no-brainer really.
ya'll some bitches
but i mean, in the interest of balance you'd want mutuality.
doesn't often work out like that, but bit of a no-brainer really.
Pretty sure ur the bitch
veritas
08-01-2018, 01:40 PM
I don’t know vammy lol
Ghost1
08-01-2018, 01:43 PM
I don’t know vammy lol
lmaoooo
bleak wtf r u talm bout
Destroyer
08-01-2018, 01:43 PM
For serious tho, I’d say it’s better to love
I mean what does “to be loved” even feel like?
It’s certainly harder to define what constitutes the feeling so just because of that I’d have to say it’s better to love
It’s muxh more personal and identifiable
Ghost1
08-01-2018, 01:47 PM
that's a bold claim
to love is definitely more subjective but I don't think to be loved is unidentifiable... to me there is a feeling of safety in being loved
veritas
08-01-2018, 01:54 PM
If I had to choose I would choose to love.
Ghost1
08-01-2018, 01:55 PM
yaknow I think it is easier....to love....than to be loved honestly
veritas
08-01-2018, 02:05 PM
I see your point. I see that both require a level of vulnerability.
I would posit the main thesis of my choice would be that to love someone who does not love you back takes the greatest amount of character and has the greatest potential for individual and societal growth.
fair?
Ghost1
08-01-2018, 02:06 PM
but what about learning to love someone who you don't love but loves you?
veritas
08-01-2018, 02:12 PM
that is the second most important. The most important is the inverse (as it is the most difficult), learning to love those who do not love you.
in other words it is much easier (but still difficult) to love someone who you don't love that loves you, then to love someone who does not love you.
so loving (for me) takes the cake over being loved.
Chill Phil
08-01-2018, 02:15 PM
To love.
You don't always feel someone else's love for you, unless they constantly do things and gestures to show you. Which typically doesn't happen. Not all the time, anyway.
~RustyGunZ~
08-01-2018, 02:17 PM
yaknow I think it is easier....to love....than to be loved honestly
It seems easier to emulate love for emotional satisfaction than to convince someone to spend their time emulating love towards you
It’s harder to actually love than to be loved I think. They’re both difficult though. And both can be toxic dependent on the people involved and what side you land on at any given moment.
in other words it is much easier (but still difficult) to love someone who you don't love that loves you, then to love someone who does not love you.
Lol, what?
veritas
08-01-2018, 02:22 PM
Lol, what?
it makes sense. Do not let the repetition of the word love throw you, sir. try it again. if you still do not perceive the truth of my words, I will happily elab in different words.
Pretty sure ur the bitch
pretty sure your woman more sturdily built than you though
fall back
veritas
08-01-2018, 02:29 PM
Netcees: Where every meaningful conversation turns into beef. Est. 2009
veritas
08-01-2018, 03:15 PM
lol didn't you lash out at him first?
I believe end was being condescending in his first post, but I think he’s always like that lol
Love yah @eng
it makes sense. Do not let the repetition of the word love throw you, sir. try it again. if you still do not perceive the truth of my words, I will happily elab in different words.
I got it now. After I hit submit, I got it.
veritas
08-01-2018, 03:27 PM
I believe end was being condescending in his first post, but I think he’s always like that lol
Love yah @eng
AH. Fair enough then.
I ain’t trying argue with none of these niggas.
Destroyer
08-01-2018, 04:01 PM
I got it now. After I hit submit, I got it.
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Ghost1
08-01-2018, 04:28 PM
https://media.tenor.com/images/26167898a252dafa052a85c53bb5b99c/tenor.gif
lmaooooooooo
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