COUNSELING SEXUALLY ABUSED MEN

[veritas]

So in the spirit of helping your real life psychological development, I propose an idea. I found that most men have a very difficult time discussing sexual abuse, and lie/minimize/justify etc. So what I did was set up an anonymous drop box that would lock outside my office. I gave patients the ability to write anonomously what happened....and it blew up!

idea: since the tags are anonymous, go ahead and tag your pain.

I love you.

[big baby]

LITTLE BABY TOUCHED ME.

[Batty]

This is genius.

Over 65% of grown men were abused sexually by another man in their youth, that's over half the dudes you know.

[Wise Wiggles]

Like when my teacher sucked my weewee in preschool?

[Split]

http://stream1.gifsoup.com/view/650116/southpark-nice-o.gif

[veritas]

My research says 3 out of every 4 have either perpetrated or been perped.

[Batty]

I made up the statistic I posted so it wouldn't surprise me if the numbers were higher tbh.

My intuition tells me the uncle and the cousin David story are legit.

V how would you encourage the guys who wrote that (assuming they haven't already stepped forward to make a joke)

[veritas]

Good question Batman,

The first point is that those who made jokes could have for a reason....humor is an excellent defense mechanism.

The second point, and which answers your question, is that I would make them feel safe and that they could trust me. That is why all the people who have called me @ 6019173913 and told me their problems, I have never brought them to this board.

so I would say private message me, or call me. I promise that you will feel better talking about it, and learning to forgive whoever hurt you.

[uh-oh]

when i was in elementary school i was trying to get pussy

does that count? i have memories of me trying to talk my girlfriend into going into her grandmas van

i had no idea what a vagina was. i just knew dudes humped chicks, and i beatoff from a very young age so i figured lets GET IT

she didnt go for it tho, and none of my other girlfriends either. we just pecked on the lips during recess and held hands.

this was like 3rd and 4th grade btw

i ended up getting a handjob in 7th grade, blowjob during 8th grade, and pussy during the summer of 8th grade

i've viewed women as sex objects since i found my dads playboys and dirty mags

that had to be before school, because i remember my sister was in the living room watching sesame street, and i was in my parents bedroom wacking off. my mom was probably napping on the couch.

i vaguely remember getting busted.

but yea that had to be prior to kindergarten

[PancakeBrah]

You are a millstone around the neck of peace.

[big baby]

I DIDNT GET RAPED I DID THE RAPING.

[big baby]

same thing as uh oh. i used to fuck my sisters older friends and she'd hate me for it. shed be like big baby ur a fucking slimeball I'm like i know and then id fuck her friends infront of her. shes probably more mentally scarred than i am. i brought my girlfriend home and she prayed it wasnt her bestfriend cause i bang all her hot friends then they become not hot cause they have little babies from big baby

[veritas]

when i was in elementary school i was trying to get pussy

does that count? i have memories of me trying to talk my girlfriend into going into her grandmas van

i had no idea what a vagina was. i just knew dudes humped chicks, and i beatoff from a very young age so i figured lets GET IT

she didnt go for it tho, and none of my other girlfriends either. we just pecked on the lips during recess and held hands.

this was like 3rd and 4th grade btw

i ended up getting a handjob in 7th grade, blowjob during 8th grade, and pussy during the summer of 8th grade

i've viewed women as sex objects since i found my dads playboys and dirty mags

that had to be before school, because i remember my sister was in the living room watching sesame street, and i was in my parents bedroom wacking off. my mom was probably napping on the couch.

i vaguely remember getting busted.

but yea that had to be prior to kindergarten

was your father an alcoholic? or were any of the men in your life alcoholics?

[Batty]

V, I see what you did there now. Well done, sir.

[veritas]

someone just called me from new jersey....who was it?

[uh-oh]

my sister used to hate me because when she'd have friends over they'd spend more time with me.

i never banged any of them tho, sadly. she had a couple good looking friends who i would have. but i was intimidated by the age difference thing. even tho it was only a year ahead of me. those chicks were women yo in my mind lmao

i went from having pretty girlfriends in elementary school. going to fairs and shit holding hands. i remember a church lock in. my buddy's family was apart of this church, where the kids would go i guess and they'd lock you in for the night. it was like a big sleepover basically like 40 kids or something where you do activities and play and run wild. well his cousin was my girlfriend and she was there. and i remember trying to kiss her but she was shook. and at night we all slept in this room and i kept trying to sneak over to the girls side but they kept being like go to sleep little niggas what you doing

so when middle school came, i was like fuck these pretty ho's and just started getting with the sluts. if a chick was rumored to blow a kid that was my new girl. if a chick got boobs early, she was basically a slut in everyones mind.

but thats how i made progress lmao

[uh-oh]

was your father an alcoholic? or were any of the men in your life alcoholics?

what constitutes an alcoholic? is it alcohol dependency, or simple consumption?

cuz my dad drank/drinks beer everyday. but recently since he's hit hard times, and i've been supporting him he has stopped drinking cuz it was too expensive. but he didnt have any withdrawal symptoms and shit so its kind of changed my mind on what constitutes as an alcoholic

but if you mean he consumed alcohol regularly, yes

[veritas]

GUIZE GUIZE GUIZE.....please only talk about your HOMOSEXUAL experiences, we accept you as heterosexual men, and know that it was not your fault.

I love you.

[Batty]

Some of these stories sound like Seth Mcfarlane wrote them.

Try reading them in Ted's voice.

Amiright?

[big baby]

when i was 8 me and my friends touched dicks cause it tickled but then we thought it was weird so we tickled our dicks where our parents wouldnt see us but then one kids mom saw me touching her sons dick wiht my dick and i was a year older so she thought i was bullying him long story short the neighborhood rumor was that i fucked the lil kid and he didnt know what itw as so hes like i had sex with big baby and i was like wtf no i just tickled ur dick and he was like i thought we had sex :( im like no ull learn to have sex when ur my age, anyway i think hes mentally scarred cause he plays in arcades all day and wears those big jeans that carry tons of quarters. and once when i was like 11 i showed my peepee to the girl next door and her brother saw and he was mad but he was younger but she liked it and then couple years later she asked to masturbate me and i said no and she cried i think anyway big baby do da thing and once oh yeah i forgot, once my dogs dick touched my face cause he jumped real high and his dick touched my face and i touch his balls ever so often cause they're so tiny and i like how they're cold. :) lol

[uh-oh]

GUIZE GUIZE GUIZE.....please only talk about your HOMOSEXUAL experiences, we accept you as heterosexual men, and know that it was not your fault.

I love you.
word i was just wondering if my psychological faults were due to me trying to be sexually active before i could even ejaculate

i remember peeing in a kiddy pool and making a younger kid drink the pool water

if that counts as homosexual activity

in middle school football we thought it was funny to slap eachother on the ass(in our gear duh) and say "good game"

thats about as gay as i go BRO

[big baby]

when i was 8 me and my friends touched dicks cause it tickled but then we thought it was weird so we tickled our dicks where our parents wouldnt see us but then one kids mom saw me touching her sons dick wiht my dick and i was a year older so she thought i was bullying him long story short the neighborhood rumor was that i fucked the lil kid and he didnt know what itw as so hes like i had sex with big baby and i was like wtf no i just tickled ur dick and he was like i thought we had sex :( im like no ull learn to have sex when ur my age, anyway i think hes mentally scarred cause he plays in arcades all day and wears those big jeans that carry tons of quarters. and once when i was like 11 i showed my peepee to the girl next door and her brother saw and he was mad but he was younger but she liked it and then couple years later she asked to masturbate me and i said no and she cried i think anyway big baby do da thing and once oh yeah i forgot, once my dogs dick touched my face cause he jumped real high and his dick touched my face and i touch his balls ever so often cause they're so tiny and i like how they're cold. :) lol

The Mind Assassin am i gay

[uh-oh]

veritas, while you are here

are there any connections between a woman assaulting a kid?

i wasnt, sadly, but i always wished a hot teacher or one of my moms friends would sex me up.

i have a theory that there is nothing wrong with women "molesting" boys, because they are MEN and therefore love it.

like if a teacher bangs a middle school or high school kid

cuz when i was in middle school i was shooting weak clear jizz with my 6 pubes and would have loved to sex up a woman. i think it would have helped me more than hurt me.

but i dont have the statistics

thoughts

[Witty]

what constitutes an alcoholic? is it alcohol dependency, or simple consumption?

cuz my dad drank/drinks beer everyday. but recently since he's hit hard times, and i've been supporting him he has stopped drinking cuz it was too expensive. but he didnt have any withdrawal symptoms and shit so its kind of changed my mind on what constitutes as an alcoholic

but if you mean he consumed alcohol regularly, yes

An alcoholic is someone who bases their life around the alcohol, rather than someone who sees the alcohol as an enjoyable addition to their life.

Once it starts dictating how you live and what you do, you are addicted.

[big baby]

veritas, while you are here

are there any connections between a woman assaulting a kid?


this

[veritas]

hang on guys, firing up the PCP....

[Witty]

veritas, while you are here

are there any connections between a woman assaulting a kid?

i wasnt, sadly, but i always wished a hot teacher or one of my moms friends would sex me up.

i have a theory that there is nothing wrong with women "molesting" boys, because they are MEN and therefore love it.

like if a teacher bangs a middle school or high school kid

cuz when i was in middle school i was shooting weak clear jizz with my 6 pubes and would have loved to sex up a woman. i think it would have helped me more than hurt me.

but i dont have the statistics

thoughts

Well, I don't think it's the fact that people don't enjoy it that makes it a crime and immoral, it is the fact that the child is not at the age to give any sort of consent, and that doesn't just mean saying yes, it's about being informed and knowing what they are saying yes to, so we place a legal age on when we think that age is, which is never going to be a perfect solution because everyone ages differently, and as you said there are definitely those who it wouldn't really effect much, but it is necessary to protect those who really are being taken advantage of which does include both male and female.

Also, females do find it pleasurable as well, that can't be the deciding factor, it has to be down to legal consent.

Although I read shit about teachers fucking 16 year olds and going to prison and it doesn't really seem fair...so I do kinda agree but the law has to exist and it has to apply to everyone.

[Batty]

So check this out V...

Last year my uncle was revealed as a Pedo. I was shocked as fuck coz my uncle always been one of those tough ass family dudes. He's work the same job for all his life (in his 50's now), he works on diesels and shit. He's a big dude like 6'3, 275. Never woulda even suspected he'd be on some shit like that, he never even had a sign of it when we was all kids.

Now dude has went to therapy and he says the barber in his old neighborhood molested him and somebody in his family did too when he was little.

I'm just saying, uncles be on that on the slick dick touching.

[veritas]

veritas, while you are here

are there any connections between a woman assaulting a kid?

i wasnt, sadly, but i always wished a hot teacher or one of my moms friends would sex me up.

i have a theory that there is nothing wrong with women "molesting" boys, because they are MEN and therefore love it.

like if a teacher bangs a middle school or high school kid

cuz when i was in middle school i was shooting weak clear jizz with my 6 pubes and would have loved to sex up a woman. i think it would have helped me more than hurt me.

but i dont have the statistics

thoughts


ok I am back, UH-OH please do not forget that You have sent me your drawings, and done extensive testing with me, and that I know you better than you know yourself.

This thread is for your HOMOSEXUAL experiences. That is what we will discuss. I promise that you can discuss them and people here will still call you da gawd. It seems like you are beating around the bush, was that you who just called me and then hung up?

to somewhat answer your question, it is normal to be attracted to older women as a manchild. Also, there is a difference between sexual curiosity and sexual exploitation.

I love you.

[veritas]

So check this out V...

Last year my uncle was revealed as a Pedo. I was shocked as fuck coz my uncle always been one of those tough ass family dudes. He's work the same job for all his life (in his 50's now), he works on diesels and shit. He's a big dude like 6'3, 275. Never woulda even suspected he'd be on some shit like that, he never even had a sign of it when we was all kids.

Now dude has went to therapy and he says the barber in his old neighborhood molested him and somebody in his family did too when he was little.

I'm just saying, uncles be on that on the slick dick touching.


looking back now, did he have any bizarr or subtle weird type hobbies or traits?

[Batty]

Naw V. This nigga went bass fishing.

Maybe he just played the "man's man" type of role so hard to cover up his true self? Like a defense mechanism type of thing?

I mean, dude has been married to my aunt since they were really young and he's always worked the same job and been a hardworking dependable dude.

now he wants to touch kids and have them touch him back.

Now, I'm thinking this nigga wants to have tea parties with My Little Ponys and get freaky with crumbsnatchers.

TCBL.

[veritas]

Naw V. This nigga went bass fishing.

Maybe he just played the "man's man" type of role so hard to cover up his true self? Like a defense mechanism type of thing?

I mean, dude has been married to my aunt since they were really young and he's always worked the same job and been a hardworking dependable dude.

now he wants to touch kids and have them touch him back.

Now, I'm thinking this nigga wants to have tea parties with My Little Ponys and get freaky with crumbsnatchers.

TCBL.

Maybe the barber was his template and was a real mans man too? So then that acted as his template? fair enough?

[StarFaggot]

Veritas is actually gay. He's reaching out to NC because he was assaulted young. I'm not making a joke of it either.

[Batty]

Maybe the barber was his template and was a real mans man too? So then that acted as his template? fair enough?


Ahhhhh.... like he's all like "I'm a part time dicktoucher plus I do hair"

could be true, I'mma try to see which barber it was for sure. If it's the dude I'm thinking of from the old hood, he just seemed like a regular old dude but he coulda been quick with that eagle claw back in the day yanno.

I'm still like TCBL tho. I can't even look at a bass fish without the mental image this nigga spanking Macauley Culkin's nuts.

[veritas]

keep it real Batman, cuz I know you and you a real dude:

Looking back, he ever say anything out of the way to you? or slide his hand down your back when yall hugged instead of just patting it?

[big baby]

keep it real Batman, cuz I know you and you a real dude:

Looking back, he ever say anything out of the way to you? or slide his hand down your back when yall hugged instead of just patting it?

fuck yeah I'm so hard keep going

[Batty]

Naw V, real talk. I would've told you during one of our sessions, you know this. I'm beginning to think that maybe this bloomed later in life for him somehow. I mean, I was a cute kid but my wang was touch-free. Makes no sense tbh.

I can't think of one single time that dude was suspect tho... I mean nothing. He worked alot, so I saw my aunt alot more than I saw him but dude was just like a regular family man when ever I saw him. He was strict on my cousins and used to beat the breaks off of them, but I can't remember anything that was a clue. Alot of dudes beat their kids asses, my mom gave me a Sagat uppercut one day for setting the woods on fire.

My uncle wore flannel shirts and worked on diesels, he watched football and went fishing. He was a tough guy mechanic.

Dude was a ninja with that shit.

[big baby]

Naw V, real talk. I would've told you during one of our sessions, you know this. I'm beginning to think that maybe this bloomed later in life for him somehow. I mean, I was a cute kid but my wang was touch-free. Makes no sense tbh.

I can't think of one single time that dude was suspect tho... I mean nothing. He worked alot, so I saw my aunt alot more than I saw him but dude was just like a regular family man when ever I saw him. He was strict on my cousins and used to beat the breaks off of them, but I can't remember anything that was a clue. Alot of dudes beat their kids asses, my mom gave me a Sagat uppercut one day for setting the woods on fire.

My uncle wore flannel shirts and worked on diesels, he watched football and went fishing. He was a tough guy mechanic.

Dude was a ninja with that shit.

maybe when he said he went fishing he didnt mean actual fish.

[Batty]

Fair enough.

Plus, he might've actually said fisting tbh.

[veritas]

fair, fair,.....well did any really stressfull events happen to him later on in life bro?

[Batty]

I'm trying to think....

I know at some point during his youth he got shot in the eye with a pellet gun or something. It seems like I remember my aunt telling the story, his eye always looked janky. He was probably my most normal uncle until I found out about this. I'm gonna try to get more info, it's still a touchy subject, literally and figuratively.

He's old schol so all I can imagine is Floyd the Barber jacking off Opie or something. I didn't know that much dicktouching happened back in the day. like I said, he was a ninja.

[big baby]

http://www.bassfishin.com/fishing-cartoons/cartoon-6/cartoon-1.jpg

[big baby]

Batty

[veritas]

I'm trying to think....

I know at some point during his youth he got shot in the eye with a pellet gun or something. It seems like I remember my aunt telling the story, his eye always looked janky. He was probably my most normal uncle until I found out about this. I'm gonna try to get more info, it's still a touchy subject, literally and figuratively.

He's old schol so all I can imagine is Floyd the Barber jacking off Opie or something. I didn't know that much dicktouching happened back in the day. like I said, he was a ninja.

I want you to ask him for me?

[Batty]

Batty

http://graceevan.org/filerequest/1166

[Batty]

I want you to ask him for me?


elab

[veritas]

elab

Well I mean how comfy are you talking about it with him?

[big baby]

namix PancakeBrah thread close

[Batty]

Bro, I'll talk about anything. I don't think he will be cool with it tho.

This nigga had a breakdown when the shit came out tbh.

I will call you.

[veritas]

Fa sho. You got the juice now.

[Fig]

I got rimmed in a shakeys pizza arcade section when I was yesterday