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Doug Funny
08-22-2014, 01:34 PM
My girlfriend turns me off at times in the bedroom. She complains about being tired, and she does not want to suck my dick like talking bout it. So I've decided to cheat. Not with one girl either bc while that would be great I'm sure it would get me caught up on the long run, seeing as how all females want relationships. I have not cheated yet, mainly bc I'm on the fence about it. She is a great girl, does a lot for me and genuinely cares about me, but she does not do enough in the bedroom. She's funny, smart and I feel like I can trust her. Idk if I want to be the dude that broke it off bc he didn't get head, or the dude who cheated cuz he didn't get head. We've been together since April, what do u suggest?

Hush
08-22-2014, 01:36 PM
No but ur a shit poster

Witty
08-22-2014, 01:36 PM
Yes, you are.

And also a coward.

Drunken Master
08-22-2014, 01:40 PM
Since April? If you're older than 14 you should reach up and smack yourself. Just cut ties.


If you're going to fuck another girl, or you're even thinking about fucking another girl then you obviously don't respect your chick. And if you don't respect her you shouldn't waste her time by being with her.



Maybe your dick smells like stale cheetos dipped in year-old sour cream topped with stomach bile so she doesn't want her face near it?


1) You're a twat for asking a rap forum for dating advice
2) You're a twat for thinking other people give a shit about your 2 day old relationshit
3) You're a twat for thinking that you can somehow justify cheating
D) You're a twat for needing permission to be a piece of shit
V) You're a twat

StarFaggot
08-22-2014, 01:45 PM
Yes, you are.

And also a coward.

You're judgmental and overall a bad person. Quit acting like you do no wrong.

Doug Funny you should probably just leave your girl if you're going to cheat. Or, you can get your girl to understand that sometimes you will step out on her and if she accepts then that's your new situation.

Doug Funny
08-22-2014, 01:45 PM
Yes, you are.

And also a coward.

But what do you think I'm a coward for exactly? For cheating? I mean I am not exactly scared to tell her, lol, I just would like to have her around if that makes sense? She cooks, cleans, and makes me warm inside, I really like her.

Doug Funny
08-22-2014, 01:46 PM
You're judgmental and overall a bad person. Quit acting like you do no wrong.

Doug Funny you should probably just leave your girl if you're going to cheat. Or, you can get your girl to understand that sometimes you will step out on her and if she accepts then that's your new situation.

If I suggest that wouldn't that give her the green light to cheat lol? I would like to not be cheated on. This may be my only option though, if she isn't cool with this we'll have to break it off. A very sad day indeed.

Greed
08-22-2014, 01:48 PM
You decided to cheat, not with just one girl, many of them, but haven't started yet.

But my g, you cant even talk your current girl into giving u head. how u gonna pull that off.

StarFaggot
08-22-2014, 01:48 PM
If I suggest that wouldn't that give her the green light to cheat lol? I would like to not be cheated on.

Of course she doesn't get the green light.

Certain
08-22-2014, 01:48 PM
I would like to not be cheated on.

How do you think she feels?

Witty
08-22-2014, 01:48 PM
But what do you think I'm a coward for exactly? For cheating? I mean I am not exactly scared to tell her, lol, I just would like to have her around if that makes sense? She cooks, cleans, and makes me warm inside, I really like her.

Break up with her, or speak to her about it and resolve the situation...going behind someone's back like that makes you a coward.

Witty
08-22-2014, 01:50 PM
You're judgmental and overall a bad person. Quit acting like you do no wrong.

Doug Funny you should probably just leave your girl if you're going to cheat. Or, you can get your girl to understand that sometimes you will step out on her and if she accepts then that's your new situation.

I don't act like I do nothing wrong, I have done plenty of wrong things.

But I am not a coward and I don't do things behind peoples backs, because that is cowardice...if you feel a certain way, have the balls to say it to the person's face.

StarFaggot
08-22-2014, 01:50 PM
Btw they stopped making women who don't give head in 1988 so if she's not doing that then it's your right to get serviced elsewhere.

Doug Funny
08-22-2014, 01:51 PM
You decided to cheat, not with just one girl, many of them, but haven't started yet.

But my g, you cant even talk your current girl into giving u head. how u gonna pull that off.

I got a girl coming over when I get off work that's going to make my penis touch her tonsils. I have never had a problem getting head before, this is like one of the weirdest situations I've ever been in lol, I have never had a problem like this. I really have to break up with a girl cuz she won't suck my dick?

Doug Funny
08-22-2014, 01:52 PM
How do you think she feels?

I'm gonna make sure she doesn't find out.

StarFaggot
08-22-2014, 01:52 PM
I don't act like I do nothing wrong, I have done plenty of wrong things.

But I am not a coward and I don't do things behind peoples backs, because that is cowardice...if you feel a certain way, have the balls to say it to the person's face.

Doing wrong things makes you a coward bc you don't have the integrity to do right.

Greed
08-22-2014, 01:54 PM
Unless your asking in some sort of creepy way I cant imagine a sexually active girl who aint bout that life. Thats they shit.

You must got a good job or something cause the game sounds lackluster.

Witty
08-22-2014, 01:54 PM
Doing wrong things makes you a coward.

Like claiming to be black when you're Asian?

Cheating on someone is cowardly, you're doing it because you are too afraid to face the situation, man up and grow some balls.

Drunken Master
08-22-2014, 01:54 PM
I'm going to fuck your girl Doug Funny.


Bet she gives brain like Krang from TMNT too

Doug Funny
08-22-2014, 01:55 PM
Btw they stopped making women who don't give head in 1988 so if she's not doing that then it's your right to get serviced elsewhere.

This is my point, this bitch be bs in bed and ain't that she just don't give head it's like other shit, like she tryna play games. I almost wanna get caught just so I can scream "bitch what did you think??"

StarFaggot
08-22-2014, 01:56 PM
Like claiming to be black when you're Asian?

Cheating on someone is cowardly, you're doing it because you are too afraid to face the situation, man up and grow some balls.

I'm black. Where do you get off calling Aero Asian?

Cheating isn't cowardly, not telling her the truth when she confronts you is.

jilti
08-22-2014, 01:57 PM
seems like u have a good girl, dont fuck it up Doug Funny

Doug Funny
08-22-2014, 01:58 PM
Unless your asking in some sort of creepy way I cant imagine a sexually active girl who aint bout that life. Thats they shit.

You must got a good job or something cause the game sounds lackluster.

Yes I must need help or something, like I said I've never had this problem before. I think it's sad that I can hit a bitch up in my phone that would do way more for me today than she has done thus far

Greed
08-22-2014, 02:00 PM
Cheating on someone is cowardly, you're doing it because you are too afraid to face the situation, man up and grow some balls.

Its ideals like these that had fig captain save a ho'n at that party that one time. Fdb. These hoes aint loyal.

Doug Funny
08-22-2014, 02:00 PM
seems like u have a good girl, dont fuck it up Doug Funny

Believe me when I tell you, she is not worth giving up head for. And I've told her this shit before.

Drunken Master
08-22-2014, 02:02 PM
Maybe she's claustrophobic? And your muffin top suffocates her when she tries? These phobias are real.

Witty
08-22-2014, 02:02 PM
I'm black. Where do you get off calling Aero Asian?

Cheating isn't cowardly, not telling her the truth when she confronts you is.

Cheating is absolutely cowardly...you are going behind someones back, someone you claim to 'love' or w.e...if you haven't entered into a relationship then fuck as many people as you like, but if you have then be a man and either stick with it or end it...if you cheat it means you are unhappy with who you are with, if you are unhappy with who you are with, in any way, tell them and resolve it....cheating on someone is betrayal...betrayal is cowardice. It doesn't make you a terrible person, I was joking about that part as everyone fucks up, but it is a shameful thing to do imo...but if you PLAN it and know that what you're doing has the potential to hurt someone else, you're an even bigger coward.

I feel like I'm talking to a bunch of teens.

Witty
08-22-2014, 02:03 PM
Its ideals like these that had fig captain save a ho'n at that party that one time. Fdb. These hoes aint loyal.

Find a hoe that is loyal then, you moron.

Certain
08-22-2014, 02:04 PM
To be honest, Doug Funny, it seems like your girlfriend isn't worth the headache of covering up the cheating. Dump her. You don't love her. You often don't like her. What's keeping you? Does she pay the rent?

StarFaggot
08-22-2014, 02:06 PM
Yo Doug Funny she doesn't respect you as much as she should. Any woman who truly wants a man will do almost anything even stuff she doesn't like. Tell her she needs to perform and if she doesn't then you withhold sex from her. Have her cook your meals and be subtly cold to her.

Doug Funny
08-22-2014, 02:07 PM
And I've also contemplated never having sex with her again. That way I get a few more weeks of service as I'm doing me looking for her replacement, or until the extremes switch whichever happens first. It's been days since i last smashed and like I said I be turned sexually by her now anyway even I still want her around.

Greed
08-22-2014, 02:07 PM
Witty you just sound like a single nigga.

I guarantee your unlegendary d game does not stop these females natural inclination to want dick in their life.

StarFaggot
08-22-2014, 02:10 PM
Cheating is absolutely cowardly...you are going behind someones back, someone you claim to 'love' or w.e...if you haven't entered into a relationship then fuck as many people as you like, but if you have then be a man and either stick with it or end it...if you cheat it means you are unhappy with who you are with, if you are unhappy with who you are with, in any way, tell them and resolve it....cheating on someone is betrayal...betrayal is cowardice. It doesn't make you a terrible person, I was joking about that part as everyone fucks up, but it is a shameful thing to do imo...but if you PLAN it and know that what you're doing has the potential to hurt someone else, you're an even bigger coward.

I feel like I'm talking to a bunch of teens.


If you cheat it's because your dick liked vagina and mouth. It's not that deep. Do you drink witty? That makes you a coward bc you're trying to escape reality.

Greed
08-22-2014, 02:10 PM
And I've also contemplated never having sex with her again. That way I get a few more weeks of service as I'm doing me looking for her replacement, or until the extremes switch whichever happens first. It's been days since i last smashed and like I said I be turned sexually by her now anyway even I still want her around.

Well dont do that either keep it going or nah dont have her speaking ill of your bedroom practices.

Doug Funny
08-22-2014, 02:10 PM
To be honest, Doug Funny, it seems like your girlfriend isn't worth the headache of covering up the cheating. Dump her. You don't love her. You often don't like her. What's keeping you? Does she pay the rent?

I always like her. The only problems we have ever had ever was in the bed. That's why I think it's so weird.

Split
08-22-2014, 02:10 PM
Since April? If you're older than 14 you should reach up and smack yourself. Just cut ties.


If you're going to fuck another girl, or you're even thinking about fucking another girl then you obviously don't respect your chick. And if you don't respect her you shouldn't waste her time by being with her.



Maybe your dick smells like stale cheetos dipped in year-old sour cream topped with stomach bile so she doesn't want her face near it?


1) You're a twat for asking a rap forum for dating advice
2) You're a twat for thinking other people give a shit about your 2 day old relationshit
3) You're a twat for thinking that you can somehow justify cheating
D) You're a twat for needing permission to be a piece of shit
V) You're a twat
fucking leaned

Witty
08-22-2014, 02:11 PM
Witty you just sound like a single nigga.

I guarantee your unlegendary d game does not stop these females natural inclination to want dick in their life.

And you sound like someone who can't find a decent and loyal female, and suffers from mild paranoia.

Only female in my life is a female who I know I can trust, anyone who ever fucked with me in that way would be cut out of my life completely because I would never fuck with them like that, because I have a backbone and am not afraid to speak my mind, I expect the same from anyone I am with...it's 50-50.

Find a woman you can trust, and grow up.

Witty
08-22-2014, 02:12 PM
If you cheat it's because your dick liked vagina and mouth. It's not that deep. Do you drink witty? That makes you a coward bc you're trying to escape reality.

I don't drink very often these days.

I don't need to escape anything, I am a man, if I drink it's because I enjoy it...I don't run from things.

Split
08-22-2014, 02:12 PM
"I want you, all of you, and if you're not into that then let's drop the charade"

Doug Funny
08-22-2014, 02:13 PM
Well dont do that either keep it going or nah dont have her speaking ill of your bedroom practices.

The only thing she can say is I don't fuck her. She will be saying that soon because I won't be fuckin her for a while whether I decide to cheat or not. I turned off for now. Plus tbh I know how I fuck, I could care less about any rumors floating round, I will prove my dick game to any reasonably looking decent female who questions

StarFaggot
08-22-2014, 02:14 PM
And you sound like someone who can't find a decent and loyal female, and suffers from mild paranoia.

Only female in my life is a female who I know I can trust, anyone who ever fucked with me in that way would be cut out of my life completely because I would never fuck with them like that, because I have a backbone and am not afraid to speak my mind, I expect the same from anyone I am with...it's 50-50.

Find a woman you can trust, and grow up.

Witty I guarantee I could fly your girl out to the states and ravage her. She needs a man who has acquired things and knows what it's like to have several women attracted to him. Of course you don't cheat bc no one wants you. You'd have to actively search to cheat. Me, I could go to the mall and get pussy on accident.

Witty
08-22-2014, 02:15 PM
The self esteem in this thread is incredibly low.

Witty
08-22-2014, 02:16 PM
Witty I guarantee I could fly your girl out to the states and ravage her.

Do it.

Also, did you call yourself Aero because that's how it sounds when you say hello?

That was an asian joke.

Greed
08-22-2014, 02:17 PM
Witty.

Brobro, you ever be out with a girl, and they like 'oh my man is this and that and blah blah blah' talking all sorts of bad about him, and then you fuck her?

Bitches are just like niggas was the best lesson I ever learned. Dont be fooled by that super sweet attitude she gives you she do that for you because thats what you like she'll adapt to the next dude she gets the same way.

Doug Funny
08-22-2014, 02:18 PM
See this guy Aero gets me, only real nigga here. I will update this thread soon. I'm going to talk to her about it tonight.

StarFaggot
08-22-2014, 02:18 PM
Do it.

Also, did you call yourself Aero because that's how it sounds when you say hello?

That was an asian joke.

Your girl will know I'm not Asian when she unzips my fly.

Witty this thread isn't for you.

Witty
08-22-2014, 02:18 PM
Witty.

Brobro, you ever be out with a girl, and they like 'oh my man is this and that and blah blah blah' talking all sorts of bad about him, and then you fuck her?

Bitches are just like niggas was the best lesson I ever learned. Dont be fooled by that super sweet attitude she gives you she do that for you because thats what you like she'll adapt to the next dude she gets the same way.

Not while I'm in a relationship...because I am not a coward.

Again, you are clearly associating with the wrong kind of female.

Witty
08-22-2014, 02:19 PM
Your girl will know I'm not Asian when she unzips my fly.

Witty this thread isn't for you.

Any thread is for me, I can control any thread.

I'm too good at it, sometimes I think it's a super power.

Witty
08-22-2014, 02:22 PM
See this guy Aero gets me, only real nigga here. I will update this thread soon. I'm going to talk to her about it tonight.

I want to know why you made the thread if you had already decided?

I mean, I pretty much call bullshit on any thread like this, I don't believe a word you said, same as most ppl on Netcees, though I will still argue for my own ends....but, if you are serious....why make a thread? Because you have already made up your mind so what was the point of this thread? Was it to appear as if you get pussy? If so, you don't need to appear to get anything, as long as you get it. Or maybe it was to get validation from other people? Either way, get your self esteem up.

Greed
08-22-2014, 02:22 PM
If your girl is the type that only hangs out with her parents and you, then yeah i'll believe she a straight shooter.

Other then that I gotta shut you down.

Blanco Bishop
08-22-2014, 02:23 PM
If u ain't gettin head from your girl then u ain't the ONE for her. U just a stepping stone.

Witty
08-22-2014, 02:24 PM
If your girl is the type that only hangs out with her parents and you, then yeah i'll believe she a straight shooter.

Other then that I gotta shut you down.

Because you associate with the wrong kind of female and can only see from the experiences you have been through, I understand that, which is why I advised for you to find a different kind of female...they are out there.

Diode
08-22-2014, 02:25 PM
if you aren't married with kids and you can't control yourself, just leave.

also, don't get married if you have a problem with a dropoff in your sex life. this is reality. it is known.

Witty
08-22-2014, 02:28 PM
if you aren't married with kids and you can't control yourself, just leave.

This.

Why are you even sticking with someone you aren't happy with?

Grow some balls and leave her, or find a way to figure it out.

If you do just want to fuck lots of people then do you, I can't hate on that, but end your relationship first because what's the point of being in one?

Greed
08-22-2014, 02:31 PM
I associate with lots of hoes. Some are more reserved then others, at first. They adapt man.

Maybe in high school or even college some inexperienced females would be too nervous or shy to cheat. But really, with your attitude what makes you think they would tell you if they were cheaters or not anyways? You'd be suprised.

Doug Funny
08-22-2014, 02:31 PM
To be honest I kinda want her to catch me and break up with me, JUST SO I CAN ASK HER... "BITCH, WHAT DID YOU THINK?" This might sound silly, but I would really love to hear her answer

Greed
08-22-2014, 02:33 PM
To be honest I kinda want her to catch me and break up with me, JUST SO I CAN ASK HER... "BITCH, WHAT DID YOU THINK?" This might sound silly, but I would really love to hear her answer

Honestly you might be doing her a favor.

Witty
08-22-2014, 02:34 PM
I associate with lots of hoes. Some are more reserved then others, at first. They adapt man.

Maybe in high school or even college some inexperienced females would be too nervous or shy to cheat. But really, with your attitude what makes you think they would tell you if they were cheaters or not anyways? You'd be suprised.

I trust anyone I am with, I have never entered into a relationship with someone I did not trust.

Though I realize I can't 100% guarantee I won't be cheated on, but that should not give me a reason to cheat, I can only hold myself to my own moral and ethical standards, I do not do something I believe to be wrong just because someone else might be doing it, that would make me a coward.

veritas
08-22-2014, 02:39 PM
instead let us focus on the thought process you had when you decided that making this thread was a great idea?

Greed
08-22-2014, 02:39 PM
Witholding your own emotions under the assumption that someone else is doing the same is naive.

Aint nothing wrong with entertaining the idea. Planning it like doug is doing is an asshole move, but shutting off all other females for a temporary gf isn't a good move either.

StarFaggot
08-22-2014, 02:43 PM
if you aren't married with kids and you can't control yourself, just leave.

also, don't get married if you have a problem with a dropoff in your sex life. this is reality. it is known.

Pretty sure you need to spice up things with your wife or I will.

Witty
08-22-2014, 02:44 PM
Witholding your own emotions under the assumption that someone else is doing the same is naive.

Aint nothing wrong with entertaining the idea. Planning it like doug is doing is an asshole move, but shutting off all other females for a temporary gf isn't a good move.

I don't get into relationships with someone I just see as being temporary though, what's the point in that?

I've only had a few serious relationships for that reason, if I don't think it's gonna be something that will go somewhere, I just stay single on that no strings shit. And I agree, slipping up and doing some shit with someone else on the spur of the moment is not that big of a deal, as long as you're honest and open about it...but to plan to cheat on someone who you have entered in to a relationship with is cowardly imo.

Greed
08-22-2014, 02:45 PM
Ayo you ever see that reacher vs settler hiw I met your mother episode?

Figure out which one you are and you can find the probability of her faithfulness being fact.

Then again another bitch told me she dont take pretty boys seriously cause they get it all the time.

Its a lose lose.

StarFaggot
08-22-2014, 02:46 PM
I associate with lots of hoes. Some are more reserved then others, at first. They adapt man.

Maybe in high school or even college some inexperienced females would be too nervous or shy to cheat. But really, with your attitude what makes you think they would tell you if they were cheaters or not anyways? You'd be suprised.

This. Witty's girl is too afraid to come forward and tell him bc she knows he'll murder her.

Witty
08-22-2014, 02:48 PM
Also Greed I think you misunderstood my point...I don't withhold my emotions because I think someone else is doing it for me. If I decide not to cheat on someone it is not because I am thinking "She would do the same" it's because I am thinking "This is the wrong thing to do based on my own moral guidelines"...I can only stand by my own morals, nobody elses. And honestly, I have never wanted to cheat, I have been in a position where I have had to break up with someone because I felt more strongly about someone else...and I did it before doing anything with the other person, because in my mind that is the correct thing to do, I have no right to fuck with somebody elses feelings or life like that, regardless if they would do it to me or not.

Witty
08-22-2014, 02:49 PM
This. Witty's girl is too afraid to come forward and tell him bc she knows he'll murder her.

I will.

Witty
08-22-2014, 02:51 PM
Maybe American girls are just sluttier tho...i dunno.

Witty
08-22-2014, 02:55 PM
4th.

Anyways, I don't think this thread is gonna meet my requirements right now, I thought it would, and I still do, just not right now...I'll come back when it's a bit more active.

Thanks for the opportunity.

Greed
08-22-2014, 02:56 PM
Maybe American girls are just sluttier tho...i dunno.

Oh you aint in America?

Lol. I always figured you were supposed to get a foreign girl that dont know about freedom to lock down proper. Maybe you do got a good one.

Ghost1
08-22-2014, 03:04 PM
Camron - Bitches Aint Shit ft McGruff, Juelz Sant…: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TVopgr62pkg

Diode
08-22-2014, 03:07 PM
Pretty sure you need to spice up things with your wife or I will.

http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-9-RT7BGcK2o/UFI4V6WqTII/AAAAAAAADLY/xUowvvMRkgk/s1600/cotton-field%5B1%5D.jpg

needs picking. should keep you busy.

StarFaggot
08-22-2014, 03:19 PM
Diode those days are over. White people work for me. Make sure you spice it up with your wife tonight or a nigga like me will. She want that black experience.

Split
08-22-2014, 03:25 PM
Girls monkeybranch out of pure instinct

StarFaggot
08-22-2014, 03:25 PM
Camron - Bitches Aint Shit ft McGruff, Juelz Sant…: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TVopgr62pkg


lol @ 2nd dudes verse.

Diode
08-22-2014, 03:28 PM
Diode those days are over. White people work for me. Make sure you spice it up with your wife tonight or a nigga like me will. She want that black experience.

http://goldsea.com/AAD/Milestones/railroad.jpg

this railroad ain't gonna build itself.

get to work, aero.

Batty
08-22-2014, 03:30 PM
Haven't read the posts in this and barely skimmed through the OP.

Advice: cheat or don't cheat.

But just know that either way some thing is wrong with you not her.

You haven't done the things to her that makes her want to do the things to you that, you want done.

Trust me, 5 minutes ago I got my dick sucked until I came too hard in my lazy boy recliner watching the Anaconda video on YouTube with my girl. I ain't even trying to brag about the wake-up sex in the middle of the night last night either, but yes nigga.

Ghost1
08-22-2014, 03:31 PM
lol @ 2nd dudes verse.

That was juelz lol......maaaaad young.

Tom Sparks
08-22-2014, 04:50 PM
How can u be with someone if the sex ain't good

I know some ppl don't value sex in relationships as really important but it is. It's at least 40-50% of the pie chart

Ure wasting urs n her time.. Move on, tell her what's good.. There's always better out there

Destroyer
08-22-2014, 05:13 PM
if you're married and your sex life drops off, you're married to the wrong person

Diode
08-22-2014, 05:16 PM
the internet is hysterical.

StarFaggot
08-22-2014, 05:16 PM
if you're married and your sex life drops off, you're married to the wrong person

Diode... & Diode you are a relatively young guy.

Diode
08-22-2014, 05:18 PM
the internet is hysterical.

Certain
08-22-2014, 05:35 PM
All of my married friends complain about the decrease, particularly after the first kid.

Destroyer
08-22-2014, 05:43 PM
well I can't speak on the after the first kid thing
that makes sense though